tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8360654093311017342024-03-13T02:21:26.554-07:00Carly Alyssa Thorne-Transformations Life CoachingMulti-Sensory Transformations, Paying It Forward, Compassionate Passionate Communications, Conscious Business Collaborations, Sharing, Teamwork, and Multi-Media- PLEASE VISIT US AT OUT NEW LOCATION: http://www.CarlyAlyssaThorne.comAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13922987428230018228noreply@blogger.comBlogger84125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836065409331101734.post-7290005724595638812013-02-01T22:32:00.000-08:002013-02-01T22:32:06.776-08:00What are You Waiting For ?<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Too many Times people let everyday Life be the excuse to NOT do something.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I don't feel well</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I am tired, I didn't get enough sleep</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-My children take up too much of my time.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I will start after the Holidays</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I will start when I turn 35</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I will do it after my kids go off to college</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-After I lose a few more pounds, then I will join the gym</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I will do it after this or that finalizes </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I will do it after I put aside this amount of $</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">There will NEVER be the perfect Moment... Life ebbs and flows each and every day, till the day You die... And... Here is the BIG ONE...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><b>You have to be Willing and Choosing the CHANGE...</b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">That is Usually what is creating all of the Stall tactics in Your Mind and Body</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">listed above. Your bodies are meant to protect us, and change can appear to Your body as a perceived threat.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">People Fear Change, get too comfortable, and unfortunately for some it takes a Huge EVENT - like an illness, divorce, even a car crash - for them to have their AHA moment...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">Life goes by so Quickly... Seize the Opportunity to Step into Your Greatness... Step beyond your Comfort Zone... There are Opportunities all around You, all You have to do is DECIDE to want to DO it and from there create a Supportive Team around You who believes in You... and then Take Action...</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13922987428230018228noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836065409331101734.post-10876142694022858602013-01-27T12:46:00.001-08:002013-01-27T12:46:13.759-08:00Life Obligation or Opportunity ?<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>I had Just Thanked someone for sharing a Post of of mine and this is what he wrote back:</b> </span><i><span style="color: blue;">"You are among the few who I follow, as you represent that "know, like, trust factor. Wherever I see your brand, I'm going to read—wanted to click because I know, like, and trust your brand. So you are always welcome, Carly!!!!"</span></i><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>So this was my Reply:</b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><i>"Thank You Sooo Much, I Live to Empower, Inspire, Educate others... It is my Life, My Passion, My Love, my Work which to me is Playtime... What more JOY can I have in my life than where I help others, Laugh, Smile, Grow etc... have an amazing Sunday..."</i></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>So My Question to You is:</b> <i> Do You See Life and or things that happen to You or that You have to do in your Life as Obligation or Opportunity ?</i></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Everything that happens to You or that You have to do in this LIFE in my personal Opinion is an <b><i>Opportunity..</i></b>. </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>An Extreme Example:</b> I grew up with Abuse of all Kinds which has affected my </span><span style="color: blue;">body Massively Physically which created many REAL Medical Issues = 27 Surgeries, </span><span style="color: blue;">Emotionally I had to Learn to navigate Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Spiritually spent Years Questioning "WHY". </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>CHOICES:</b> Hate, Anger, Abuse,Victimhood etc...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Yes, when I was Younger I did go thru my Years of hate and anger, however</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">I never hurt someone Physically. We are all human so I would never say I have never hurt someone Emotionally and Or Spiritually, we all have at some point in our life's.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">The </span><b style="color: blue;">OPPORTUNITY: </b><br />
<i><b><span style="color: blue;">To spend my Life Inspiring, Empowering, Educating others, </span><span style="color: blue;">on Everything I studied, Learned etc...</span></b></i><br />
<span style="color: blue;">I Love to help others Discover: </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Western and Eastern Health as YES they both have a purpose at certain phases of Growth, Illness etc...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*The Mind Body Spirit Interconnectedness</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*How to bring Consciousness into Business- Hence the terminology</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Conscious Business Collaboration.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*How to tap into their Multi-Sensory- a powerful tool for Expanding our</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Awareness of all of the <b>OPPORTUNITIES</b> that is all around us each and every day...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Effective communication- hence Compassionate Passionate Communications</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">And Many others things...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Also REALIZE WE ARE:</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">My Last Surgery, while in the Hospital I had <b><i>CHOICES..</i></b>..</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">To be Mean, Moody, Not honor a Prior Obligation etc...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Yes I was in Massive Pain... However... Instead I Choose Inspiration and found <i><b>Opportunity</b></i> to Smile, Laugh, help others in other hospital bed, help Empower others and even gave out Pay it Forward Bracelets to the Staff that were amazing AND... Honored my obligation to a Prior Radio interview only 10 days after Massive Surgery.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">I hear all of the time... I am just one person... I am too busy... I don't know how to... I don't have any money... I don't know what Pay it Forward is... etc.. etc... etc....</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I had Surgery Jan. 7, 2013 a Complete Knee Replacement, now... I brought with me an entire bag of Pay It Forward Bracelets and Even after the THIRD day I was handing out PIF Bracelets to the Nurses, and Nurses Aide's that were amazing to me... YES I was in Massive Pain... YES... I was stuck in a Hospital for about 10 days... YES I could have pissed and moaned and done NOTHING...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Did I NO... and the people that I gave them to LOVED them, Smiled, and wanted an Extra one, so they could keep ONE because they said they felt honored I gave them one...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">There are so many ways to Pay it Forward, that COST Nothing... A Smile, Opening a Door, lending someone a book, giving things away to others that need them, the list is ENDLESS... The List is as limitless as your imagination is...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I also had a Commitment </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">for an Interview with Pay It Forward Radio with Kathy Bacon for Jan. 17, 2013. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">It normally take up to 3-6 months to get an interview with Kathy however 3 months ago, she</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">emailed me and said she had a cancellation, would I want to take the slot, and I said Yes... </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">Meanwhile my surgery date got scheduled January 7th... </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">I had TWO Choices about the interview - to Do it or bail and cancel... </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">MY CHOICE 100% no matter how much Pain I was in, was to do the interview....</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">What are You Choosing that Empowers YOU...</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13922987428230018228noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836065409331101734.post-23910803889845802132013-01-24T16:53:00.002-08:002013-01-24T16:53:09.877-08:00What is a COMMITMENT ?<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>What is COMMITMENT:</b></u></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">-Doing what You have agreed to do <b>NO MATTER</b> What</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Nobody Cares that You don't feel well, just had a fight with Your Partner etc...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-If YOU AGREED to do Something, HONOR IT...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Yes of Course there are sometimes when THINGS Happen, however, it TRULY has to be BIG...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">And... Make All Effort to Replace Your Commitment with Someone else if YOU Cannot do it...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Is is NOT the person's responsibility to find a fill in for You...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>To Give you an IDEA Of What COMMITMENT MEANS:</b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">I had Surgery Jan. 7, 2013 a Complete Knee Replacement, now... I also had a Commitment</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">for an Interview with Pay It Forward Radio with Kathy Bacon for Jan. 17, 2013.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">It normally take up to 3-6 months to get an interview with Kathy however 3 months ago, she</span><br />
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get in a wheelchair and wheel myself out to the Courtyard where I would
be by myself to eliminate the NOISE from all of the alarms and chatter
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>Conscious Business Collaboration MasterMind: </b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><b>This Will be a 3 Month MasterMind with NO More than 12 People.</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>What is a MasterMind in my Personal Opinion and past experience from running numerous MasterMinds and Being in Numerous MasterMinds:</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>A Group of People that are:</b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Invested in each others outcomes and intentions</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Diversity in Expertise</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Open to all feedback and willing to Give feedback</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Willing to be Honest </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Willing to Contribute </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Collaborators, Givers, Go-Getters</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Action Takers</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Big Dreamers</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Willing to do what it takes</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Give massive Value to Others</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"> *Wanting to Learn, Play and Grow Each and Every Day of their Life...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Willing to Invest and Self and Others </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">And... Much More...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>What Will We Discuss and Learn:</b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Conscious Business Collaboration</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Compassionate Passionate Communications</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Social Media and Online Reputation Management</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-How to Tap into Your Multi-Sensory and Use that to Expand Your Awareness</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-The Art of of Love, Peace, and Gratitude</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Being a Go-Giver and a Go-Getter</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Mentoring</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Coaching</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Marketing</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-What is Artistry in Motion ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Accountability</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Time and Organizational Management</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-To Automate or Not </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">And Much Much More...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>How this Works:</b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-You Email me at: carlyalyssathorne@gmail.com with your Direct email</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">and Phone Number, and what Time and Days are best for you.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span>
<span style="color: blue;">-I send you back and intake form to help me best TAILOR the MasterMind</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">to benefit everyone's needs. </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span>
<span style="color: blue;">-A commitment from YOU of 3 months to a 1 hr weekly MasterMind Call</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">-A commitment to One Email Weekly to Plan for the next call</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">-If You want an Accountability Partner that can be arranged</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">-Every week after everyone emails back and says what they are working on</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">I will tailor that call so that everyone gets the maximum feedback and or</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">help from everyone.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>COST:</b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-$125 a month which is 75% + or - Less of what I normally get for Consulting and Private </span><span style="color: blue;">Coaching for ONE Session depending on the Client as I work with all demographics </span><span style="color: blue;">and Finances. Your Total Investment in Yourself is $400 for the whole 3 Months...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><u><b><br /></b></u></span>
<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>WHY am I Doing this for such a Low Price...</b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Because I have Lots of Time at home right now recovering and I LOVE to Mentor, Teach, H</span><span style="color: blue;">elp, Empower, Inspire in any way I can...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Another Way I get to Pay it Forward...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><u><b>To Give you an IDEA Of What COMMITMENT MEANS:</b></u></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">I had Surgery Jan. 7, 2013 a Complete Knee Replacement, now... I also had a Commitment </span><span style="color: blue;">for an Interview with Pay It Forward Radio with Kathy Bacon for Jan. 17, 2013. </span><span style="color: blue;">It normally take up to 3-6 months to get an interview with Kathy however 3 months ago, she </span><span style="color: blue;">emailed me and said she had a cancellation, would I want to take the slot, and I said Yes...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Now
on January 17, I was at the Knee Rehab Wing of a Hospital, so I had to
get in a wheelchair and wheel myself out to the Courtyard where I would
be by myself to eliminate the NOISE from all of the alarms and chatter
of the Hospital. Still in Massive Pain with my Leg up, I did the HOUR
interview with High Energy, Love, Compassion and More...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span>
<span style="color: blue;">If You want to Know more about me:</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://transformationslifecoaching.blogspot.com/p/blog-page.html#.UQHK1oVG_oU">View my BIO at this Link... Click HERE</a> </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">If You want to Listen to My Interview on Jan. 17 or any other Interviews or Podcasts</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://transformationslifecoaching.blogspot.com/p/media-podcasts-interviews.html">MEDIA - PODCAST LINK, Click HERE</a></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Looking Forward to the Journey</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13922987428230018228noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836065409331101734.post-56726955037111287052013-01-20T16:03:00.000-08:002013-01-20T16:03:02.676-08:00Did I just Say That ???<br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">On a recent post I read, the person replayed her day of a string of events including the losing of Car keys that got lost in the process of frustration. She later recognized the behavior and was actually surprised by some of it. - The end result being that as soon as she Left go of everything (Frustration etc) the keys were quickly recovered.</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: blue;">So, the question is, has this every happened to You ?</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And...</span></div>
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<b><span style="color: blue;">Who Controls our Reactions in times of stress ?</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">First things first, regardless of how much self-growth you have done, NLP, Hypnosis, Behavior Recognition, Behavior Modification etc... We have ALL had those moments of OMG... Did I just say and or do that...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">What basically happens during times of Distress is our bodies go to two places:</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">1- The unconscious - Old behaviors will come up, sometimes even very early childlike behaviors.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">2- Under extreme distress - The Flight or Flee alarm goes off.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Your body is designed to do whatever it takes to protect you from the presumed or actual threat.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">There is also an actual Chemical Reaction that is happening - Our Cortisol (Stress Hormone) goes up, we start to sweat, our heart starts to beat faster etc...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;"><u>Example of this:</u> </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Why do you think they ask a Pregnant woman and her partner to pre-pack a bag and keep it in the car and to actively rehearse the action steps agreed upon for when the time comes they need to get to the Hospital.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">It is because they know that when the moment arrives, emotional reactions will take over the action steps they have agreed upon.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><b><br /></b><b>So again I ask Who is in Control of our Reactions ?</b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">While Yes it is true under extreme situations we might have the offbeat reaction one that we never anticipated, there are steps we can take to MINIMIZE them...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Let's face it, unless you have been trained for Extreme situations and are an:</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Crisis Intervention Expert, A Fire Fighter, EMT, etc... chances are you are going to have some behavior come up that you would not expect.</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: blue;">Here are just a few of the Steps to take even before any events happen.</span></b><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Choose to Live a Life of Compassion and Kindness.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Pay attention to what triggers You.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Start becoming actively involved in catching yourself when a trigger starts.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Learn some self NLP- Neuro Linguistic Programming.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Learn some self Hypnosis techniques.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><b><span style="color: blue;">Here are just a few of the Steps we can take when under active stress:</span></b><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Step away from the situation and do something else.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Step away from the situation and just Breathe, taking 3 Deep Breathes in and out makes a huge difference, it instantly starts to calm your nervous system down.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Call a meeting to discuss the situation with all involved.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-If it is just You in the situation alone, do the breathing and step away.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-If You are actively involved in an intense situation and are alone, go seek the help of others.</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13922987428230018228noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836065409331101734.post-33794686206529674402013-01-20T16:01:00.001-08:002013-01-20T16:01:53.153-08:00Do You Drink Enough Water ?<br />
<span style="color: blue;"><b><u>Let's get into:</u></b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*How Much Water do we need ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*How we can make plain drinking water more fun to drink and flavorful naturally.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Water's Effect on the Body...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Water is the Ideal Water Bottle ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*The Differences between different types of water-</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">drinking water, distilled water, spring water, purified water </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I will be using Some of my examples and experience of </span><span style="color: blue;">Years of studying water, Health, containers, working with Promo Companies who make the water containers etc... as well as a few other sources noted- </span><span style="color: blue;">I am Not ENDORSING</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">any one person and or product. Use Your OWN Judgement, these</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">are just my Personal Opinions.</span><br />
<u><span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;"><b>*How Much Water do we need ? Here is a great chart by fullspike.com</b></span></u><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;"><b><u>*How we can make plain drinking water more fun to drink and flavorful naturally without adding added sugar.</u></b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Fresh Squeezed Lemon</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Organic High Food Grade Edible oils </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">A drop of either Lemon, Orange, Lime etc... </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Organic Naturally Flavored Stevia</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">-PLEASE make sure to drink your Water out of lead free Glass, Stainless Steel, or </span><span style="color: blue;">High Grade BPA Free Containers. </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">-PLEASE make sure you are drink ware is CLEAN.</span><br />
<b><u><span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">*Water's Effect on the Body...</span></u></b><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">Here is an Image I Created to show you the different types of Water bottles, ease of Clean, Functionality etc... Again just my personal opinion from Years of studying water, containers, working with Promo Companies that make the water bottles etc...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b><u>*What is the Ideal Water Bottle ?</u></b></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Let me also say when I was addressing cleaning I was also talking about the Actual Drinking mouth piece... Very Hard to keep a Straw Bacteria free and it is also NOT good for your Teeth. </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">I personally don't like to Put my bottles in the dishwasher for Various Reasons.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><b>Here are my Reasons WHY:</b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-High heat, even High Grade BPA Free Bottles isn't a great idea as it starts to break down the bottle - Hence you will start to get some plastic residue in your water.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I don't like using chemical dishwashing detergents.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I find it hard to believe how it can really get inside a bottle and get all of the</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">residual cleaner agent out, even if I am using an all Natural Cleaner.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Flat Dishes, Silverware, Bowls I think are a bit different in a dishwasher.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-I personally have one or two bottles hand wash them and replace them every couple of months.</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: blue;"><u>*The Differences between different types of water-</u></span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: blue;"><u>drinking water, distilled water, spring water, purified water </u></span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: blue;"><br /></span></b><span style="color: blue;"><b>Drinking Water: </b>Water that is safe for Human consumption and comes from a municipal Source. Hopefully YOURS Does NOT have Fluoride in it.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;"><b>Distilled Water</b>: Water gone thru a filtration process stripping it of</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Contaminants and unfortunately, all natural minerals as well.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">This water is great for any small appliances like your Coffee Makers, irons etc</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">keeps the mineral build up out of them.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;"><b>Purified Water: </b>Water that has undergone any process to remove chemicals and or contaminants. Carbon filters, Reverse Osmosis, etc...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Unfortunately this process can also remove natural minerals.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;"><b>Spring Water:</b> Water from an underground source and might have been</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">put thru a system of purification. Unfortunately our Natural Water sources aren't as clean as they used to be.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">For some more Government info you can click on the link below.</span><br />
<a href="http://water.epa.gov/drink/info/upload/2005_09_14_faq_fs_healthseries_bottledwater.pdfhttp://water.epa.gov/drink/info/uploahttp://water.epa.gov/drink/info/upload/2005_09_14_faq_fs_healthseries_bottledwater.pdfhttp://water.epa.gov/drink/info/upload/2005_09_14_faq_fs_healthseries_bottledwater.pdfhttp://water.epa.gov/drink/info/upload/2005_09_14_faq_fs_healthseries_bottledwater.pdfd/2005_09_14_faq_fs_healthseries_bottledwater.pdf"><span style="color: blue;">LINK to the Government Water EPA - Water Health Series</span></a><br />
<span style="color: blue;">I hope this article has been helpful...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">A Previous Blog Post and a Pod Cast I did on Conscious Death n' Dying</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://transformationslifecenter.blogspot.com/2012/07/all-of-life-is-spiral-continous-journey.html#.UOoHlupU6NE">CLICK HERE TO READ - </a></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">So my questions to You would Be the following and</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Have You truly thought about the following:</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">How Old do you want to Live to ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">What is Your Purpose for wanting to Live till that Age ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">What are Your Terms for Your Living till that Age ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Meaning- </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">You Really need to get clear on your Intentions for wanting to Live till a certain age and under what environment and or conditions you would be willing to live till that Age...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span>
<span style="color: blue;">*Most people FEAR Death and the Unknown.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Most DO NOT want to end Up Living all alone in a Nursing Home ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">*Today's Society is constantly upping the Game on Longevity with Technology</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">and MANY are fascinated with what that all means...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span>
<span style="color: blue;">It has almost become a Game to see how Long we can live and or cheat out on Death... </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Sooo... Again I ask the questions...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">How Old do you want to Live to ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">What is Your Purpose for wanting to Live till that Age ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">What are Your Terms for Your Living till that Age ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">What is Your REAL WHY ???</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">So here is the Thing-</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Depending on Your own UNIQUE belief's, faith, fears etc... We could get into Endless conversations about Ethics about the prolonging or ending of ones life... Fate, Destiny, Karma +++</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">The QUESTION Still remains the WHY you would Choice to either Prolong or End Yours or others Life... and What are the Terms... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Do We Really have the Control and or the Choice ?</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Personally - I have NO desire to Live into my Hundreds UNLESS...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-I could Actively Contribute MASSIVE Value to Others and myself.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-I was Healthy in a way where I was able to ACTIVELY Contribute</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">to Others and Self Mentally, Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-I could Actively Take Care of Myself Mentally, Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-I do Believe that ATTITUDE is everything...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-I do Believe we are ONLY as OLD as we Act and Feel.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And... I also Believe that we Can't Control everything...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And that sometimes things happen to even AMAZING people...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I have No need and or desire to Live into my Hundreds waiting for the next cure and or to have others caretake me just to see the newest and lastest technology...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Personally-</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I am Okay with the Unknown...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I am Okay with the Possibilities of Next Lives...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I am Okay with Letting Go when it is time...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I am at Peace whether I Live Beyond Tomorrow...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And Because of that...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I Live Each and everyday of my Life to my Fullest ability</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Mentally, Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">to the best of my Ability...</span></div>
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13922987428230018228noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836065409331101734.post-58399033238370658562013-01-02T23:36:00.001-08:002013-01-02T23:58:30.569-08:00So it's the NEW YEAR... And... Your Resolutions Are ?<div style="text-align: center;">
<b><span style="color: blue;">So here a Few questions I have seen Floating around and being Asked about New Year's Resolutions ?</span></b></div>
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<b><span style="color: blue;">***"What do you regret not having achieved last year ?"</span></b><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><b>My response:</b> I don't regret anything Everything I achieved was AWESOME and... Anything I didn't served it's purpose... I learned and grew.</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: blue;">***"Have You Set Your New Year's Resolution's Yet."</span></b><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Personally, I feel the whole Hooray about Resolutions is a complete set up for Failure... Unless... a lot of things are in place to support them.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">-What is your intended Ripple Effect ?</span>
<span style="color: blue;">-What are Your intentions for the particular Resolutions ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Do You have a support system in place for the Resolutions ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Do You have a TEAM in place for the Resolutions ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-What are the Outcomes you are looking to Achieve ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-How Committed are You to these outcomes ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Does Your Environment Support Your outcomes ?</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Does What You Think on a Daily Basis Support Your outcomes ?</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">As I am sure You have heard many times - the saying:</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">What we think about most of the time we become... we create...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Another question I would LOVE to ask -</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">What sounds better to You ?</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">About a week ago Joachim DePosada and International Speaker and the Author of "Don't Eat the Marshmallow" a book I highly recommend wrote a blog on <b>"Does it Pay to be Honest"</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://www.joachimdeposada.com/"><b>Direct LINK to JoachimDePosada if You Would Like to find out more about Joachim and or his books etc...</b></a></span></div>
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<b><span style="color: blue;">One of his points was that "more often than not,<span style="background-color: white;"> dishonesty</span> is provoked by fear or danger."</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/Honor">Honor</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/honorableness">honorableness</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/dignity">dignity</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/propriety">propriety</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/suitableness">suitableness</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/decency">decency</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/She"><i>She</i></a><i> </i><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/derives"><i>derives</i></a><i> </i><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/her"><i>her</i></a><i> </i><b>honesty</b><i> </i><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/and"><i>and</i></a><i> </i><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/achieves"><i>achieves</i></a><i> </i><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/her"><i>her</i></a><i> </i><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/goodness"><i>goodness</i></a><i>.</i></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/The">The</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/quality">quality</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/or">or</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/state">state</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/of">of</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/being">being</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/honest">honest</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/probity">probity</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/fairness">fairness</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/and">and</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/straightforwardness">straightforwardness</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/of">of</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/conduct">conduct</a>, <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/speech">speech</a>, <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/etc">etc</a>.; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/integrity">integrity</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/sincerity">sincerity</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/truthfulness">truthfulness</a>; <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/freedom">freedom</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/from">from</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/fraud">fraud</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/or">or</a> <a href="http://www.webster-dictionary.net/definition/guile">guile</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I do <b>Agree</b> with Joachim DePosada that a lot of people Lie out of Fear and Or Danger... There are quite a few degrees of difference between Fear and Danger -</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">B- Losing a Friend, Job, Spouse etc... ?</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Obviously, A & B are very Different than C however, if one's Emotions are running high - to some A & B could feel like C. They could feel like they are being personally attacked.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Regardless, of whether it is A, B or C - I, personally believe "HONESTY"</span></div>
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<span style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: blue;">And... YES... I am NOT perfect and I am sure when I was a Child I said my share of Lie's and even as an adult I know I have in the past told some lies for the same reasons listed in A, B and C.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And... I am speaking from personal experience as I have personally been in the situations of A, B & C... Yes even "C" and when I was in "C" it wasn't until I was willing to be COMPLETELY "HONEST" that I was actually SAVED... And... the Cost was Extremely High... I Lost everything in the process - Friends, Family, House etc... Long Story, I did write a blog about it, however let's not get sidetracked, and get back to this Blog post. </span></div>
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<span style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: blue;">Was it worth it ? Absolutely 100% Yes... I got my life back literally...</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Today, however I have to say... I truly do attempt to be HONEST regardless of the cost and here are some of the tools I use to that, and I will also share a Story that just recently happened. </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">When we say the Word "BUT" the unconscious inner child comes up with waiting for the other shoe to drop if you will... We are waiting for the Criticism or we are thinking OH NO... here comes the... and then what happens is the person's ARMOR goes up and they are MORE on the defensive and ARE NOT going to hear what you are saying...</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13922987428230018228noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836065409331101734.post-9739263600139282222012-12-29T22:24:00.000-08:002012-12-30T16:42:30.718-08:00Does Success = Freedom<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: blue;">"Success is freedom? I can see how successes could lead to freedom, but not how it is freedom. Please help me to understand"</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">When You are Successful in many ways that gives us the Liberty to do more of the things we LOVE - if You plan your Success right... Create a TEAM so you aren't Slaving at something... When You do what you what, when you want, with whom you want... that is pretty damn Successful... Most Never ATTAIN this in there life's...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Yes, but I think Tony Robbins is misleading. SUCCESS is an accomplishment. SUCCESS is achievement. Success comes from something we do, but freedom is a state of being. </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">What Tony suggests above is an illusion because no degree of success will produce that quality of freedom and any successful people who attempt to live according to that risk losing both their success and their freedom.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">So.... The Question I pose to YOU is ? Do You believe "Doing What You want, when you want, where You want, with whom You want, as much as You want.,"</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>Personally my opinion is:</b> If Your Product and or Service is providing massive Value and therefore is generating massive abundance and... You put together an Awesome Team and You are a Good Leader that Collaborates with Your Team... That would be a definition of Success and... That would give You the Freedom to: Do what You want, when You want, where You want, with whom You want, as much as You want - therefore Success = Freedom and I would also say Freedom = Success. Bottom line Freedom = Success and or Success = Freedom Both AND... is all a part of personal Perspective and Language - Semantics... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And... I have found those that actually do- "do </span><span style="color: blue;">what they want, when they want, where they want, with whom they want, as much as they want" create their own freedom and success. </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">The other side of that would be in doing "</span><span style="color: blue;">what You want, when You want, where You want, with whom You want, as much as You want" if You don't have a team in place, and or an organization and or Life that is time oriented and or structured to some degree - You will have NO TIME and hence NO FREEDOM... </span></div>
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<b><span style="color: blue;">And... Is it a blissful fun time or a rush... rush... rush... </span></b><b><span style="color: blue;">Stressful time....</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">So... let me start with... Years ago... I was a Christmas and or any Holiday Nut, all the Presents, Wrapping paper, Decorations, Food, People etc... etc... etc...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">It seems to me that the way we treat people on the Holidays Would be the same way we treat people all Year Round... It is about the People, the interaction, the Love, NOT the Gifts and the Holiday Commercial Hype that Just for 12/23 Pre Xmas or 12/26 Post Xmas <span style="text-align: center;">50% off sale etc...</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Most people tend to mostly gather, talk, gift etc... on Holidays and or Birthdays...</span></div>
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<b><span style="color: blue;">So... I started to rebel and did the following:</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I choose to NOT participate in the Holidays in the traditional ways...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***It first started with the Wrapping paper Carly Strike LOL...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I always thought even when I was a Holiday nut that wrapping paper was such a waste... So, to save on paper and for the sake of the trees, I would take presents and buy the regular brown paper bags with handles that could be reused and or recycled, decorate them, and put the present in Unwrapped and just use one sheet of Tissue paper to stuff the bag so there would some element of Surprise. And... I also would ask for a List of Suggested Gifts wanted to ensure that people actually got what they really needed and or wanted... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***Then, I started Choosing to see my Friends and or Family days and or even weeks before the Holiday, so that I could actually spend some Quality time with them, because otherwise on the Actual Holidays there was soooo many people, and the cooking, rushing, organizing that I never really got to spend any ACTUAL QUALITY time with the people I wanted to...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">And... OMG the Traffic, the Airports... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Now to me... Holidays are not about Stress and rushing...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***Then... I wanted to change the Actual Annual tradition of sending out all of these cards with stamps that seemed so Automatic instead of personal... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">So, instead I would send Self-Made fun photo collages and story board videos via email and yes a few actually got mailed for those who were either ill and or older who did not do email... and also follow up with a Live phone call and in person visit - the visit however would take place before or after the Holidays to allow quality time...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Think of your Holiday Gathering as Running a Production... You need to assign people assignments and have everything literally on a time schedule... there is nothing worse than last minute running around, and certain foods not being done on time etc...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***Be Crystal clear with your Guests, what they ARE or are NOT bringing and how you want it </span><span style="color: blue;">when it arrives... Cold, Hot, Sliced, Read to go etc... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***Key Also have a Crystal Clear ARRIVAL time... There is nothing worse than people arriving early while you are still attempting to set up and finishing cooking and clean up in the kitchen etc... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Understandably, there will be some people that arrive late... Traffic, last minute something... Again, just ask your guests to let you know if they are running late etc... Common Courtesy to Your Host and the other guests... They May CHOOSE to wait till Your Late comers arrive to start eating.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***Hire at LEAST ONE person whose ONLY job is to clean up the entire evening... </span><span style="color: blue;">So, YOU the Host - are actually open, worry free and available to be with your guests...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***KEY... It is the Holidays after all... - Invite the people you Hire to actually (after all of the Logistics are taken care of) SIT down at the table with YOU and Eat... then after eating they can go back to their job... And... Pay them Well... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">This last Blog Post written by Bruce Turkel brought up some interesting points I would Like to explore.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://www.randygage.com/blog/being-unique-just-like-everyone-else/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+randygage+%28Randy%27s+Blog%29">CLICK HERE TO READ BRUCE TURKEL'S BLOG POST on RANDY GAGE's Site...</a></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">So one of the things Bruce Turkel states and I am summarizing here- that the word UNIQUE is overused and can be of disservice because the actual search for uniqueness is an never-ending search and it is a very tall order. He Concludes with the quote by Oscar Wilde - </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">"Be Yourself. Everyone else is already taken." </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>What I would like to add to that is</b> - some people get so wrapped up in being UNIQUE and the search that they get LOST along the way and or get so frustrated in the process of the search and what it takes to be UNIQUE... that they also wind up giving up...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">If we go by the Dictionary version that I can completely agree that is quite UNIQUE to achieve the status of UNIQUE... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">When I hear the Word UNIQUE and or use the Word UNIQUE or tell my clients to be UNIQUE... What I am saying and meaning is to be your Own Authentic Self... When you are NOT being yourself and are just spitting out status quo statements, and do the typical hand movements and or Staged Postures etc... and are Attempting to be Somebody else... People know it and quite frankly are tired of the canned or memorized responses and or speeches and behavior... At least I personally am...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">When I hear a friend and or speaker speak etc... I want to see the same authentic person on stage as I know him or her when I shake their hand, talk to them or go out to dinner with them...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Now let us take this a Step Further Mark Sanborn in his book "Up, Down, or Sideways" </span><br />
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<a href="http://www.marksanborn.com/"><span style="color: blue;">CLICK HERE TO GO TO MARK SANBORN's Website... </span></a></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Mark talks about one of his Successes as a Lead trainer for Tom Peters-In Search of Excellence seminar based on the book with the same title.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Mark says that he attributes his success over other trainers because they were just copying Tom Peter's jokes, and the way Tom Peter's delivered on stage... While, Mark Sanborn choose to teach and speak from his Own Unique and Authentic way... He still delivered the same information just in his own way...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I have been in relationships way back when, when the person I was dating when we were together they were one way, then when we would go out, he would be completely different with this sailing buddies, completely different with his work out buddies, completely different with Family etc... etc... etc...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">For me that is not being your authentic self.... When I would ask him why...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">He would tell me, I can't let my Business or Sailing buddies know that I am Spiritual and do Yoga and am into that metaphysical stuff, they wouldn't understand...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">That type of living just doesn't work for me, and I Choose to Collaborate, Share, Consult, and be with people that LOVE being just themselves...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">People who know me, know what they are going to get - in person, coaching, consulting and or on stage... High Energy, Drive, Passion, and Straight Talk, that is Compassionate yet to the point... Spiritual Yes, Metaphysical Yes, Yet when I talk , I am talking from a very grounded place with a lot of Warrior Energy... I mix in my Spiritual Metaphysical side into teaching in a very western almost logical way... so that all Audiences More Western and or More Eastern can take the tools and apply them in their daily life and business.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Not everyone wants to know what colors the chakras are, are they male or female, which way they are spinning, what organs they are associated with etc... Some people just want to know the basics and how they can merge Eastern ways and techniques that they can apply in their daily Western ways... </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Bottom Line... Love who You are, and </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I can choose to Learn from the feedback</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I can actively implement the feedback</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I can say NEXT..</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Telling someone they are an SOB is very different then telling them, You know I really don't appreciate that behavior or tone etc...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>The Art of Communicating, What are You Saying ?</b></span></div>
<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">I would LOVE to hear some comments and or feedback from the articles below.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">The below are just PORTIONS of the Course, not the totality of the course, however will give you a enough to think about and tools to start applying now.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><br /></span><span style="color: blue;">We are in the middle of Production to make this into an Ebook, Audio Book, Print Manual and filming this Course to make it into a DVD Course and for the ULTIMATE multi-sensory experience a Live Version which I used to teach back east at my center.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">"Nothing and Everything... <b>Nothing...</b> Because first of all of those PAST experiences has made me who I am and <b>Everything</b> because I would do it differently from what I NOW Know... and This is a Tricky Question if YOU REALLY Get into it... Because some believe in Fate, Destiny, Karma, Dharma etc... So, if I Believe I Choose my Mother who had German Measles and RH Negative Blood while she was Pregnant with me and was told to abort me because I would be born with a ton of medical problems and she didn't abort me and here I am now at 48 going on Surgery #27 and... have dedicated my life to Learning about Health, Nutrition, Eastern and Western Healing and Medicine etc.. etc..etc... and I said I want to Change my Health and even though I have done everything within my Power thru All Sorts of Techniques, Healing etc.. etc.. etc... and I am still having Medical Challenges... Soooo... I would have to SAY Nothing and Everything within the COSMIC INTERCONNECTEDNESS of The Why we are </span><span style="color: blue; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">the Way we are... "</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I have been wanting to write about this for awhile and have been asked many times because I have a few interesting thoughts about this.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Some agree and some don't and that is all good. </span></div>
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<b><u><span style="color: blue;">First let me start off with:</span></u></b><br />
<b><span style="color: blue;">I ABSOLUTELY AGREE WE ALL DESERVE TO GET PAID FOR WHAT WE DO...</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Now... How to get paid Abundantly and what you Deserve for doing what You Love... Well... This all depends on many people's unique version of what they hold true for themselves as to what is getting PAID Abundantly, what they Deserve, what Values they hold and in what currencies they are willing to get paid in and what that all means to them personally...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Ok - before we go on let me address the </span><span style="color: magenta;">BIG PINK ELEPHANT </span><span style="color: blue;">in the Room... Yes- we are living in the 20th century in which actual currency is in the form of $$$ - Money and we all have Bills to pay and a certain lifestyle we have chosen. I am also going to say upfront that <b>Yes, You can be Spiritual and Abundant. </b>And... Will add to that, that the <b>more wealth you have, the more Flexibility you will have to help others... It is what it is... </b></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Having grown up overseas, seen various cultures and having myself been very Wealthy, and Very Poor, even on Disability a few times due to medical issues, and having Lived off the Grid, Off the Land, Owned several businesses, did the 9-5, Self Employed, Full Salary, Only Commissions, Part Salary-Part Commissions, Part Barter, Full Barter etc... </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Grown up in Mansions-Like the one Above - Seriously I used to get LOST in my own homes as a kid sometimes... Ridiculous.. </span><span style="color: blue;">I can also say I didn't grow up with a Silver spoon in my mouth, quite the opposite. The Houses where Amazing, yet I wore hand me down clothes, never went to summer camps like everyone else, except Once... etc... etc.. etc... Not the time or place.. Just providing reference points of talking from experience... I </span><span style="color: blue;">Left home before graduating High School and got creative housing by Babysitting and House Care taking in exchange for Room and Board while I still went to school. Over the years have owned several large houses, Many toys, and also have Lived in a ONE Room Flat, Lived and slept in the middle of a Jungle for up to 6 months with a screen in kitchen, an outhouse etc... etc... etc... So- I can talk from experiences from all sides of the situation. I can't claim to having ever been a Multi-Millionaire however, worked with many and handled Accounting and Funds in the Millions for clients, and have created massive abundance for clients and an abundant living for myself when not in Medical Crisis and having multiple surgeries that is a another topic... Yet regardless of setbacks I ALWAYS Rose back up thru the ashes if you will...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">-Massive Value</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Quality</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Authenticity</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Growth</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Experience</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Problem solving</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Solutions</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Creativity</span><br />
<b><span style="color: blue;">And... All of the above done with excellent Customer Service with an Open Mind and Heart... </span><span style="color: blue;">I absolutely AGREE we all deserve Payment:</span></b><br />
<span style="color: blue;">Now here is where I am more of a <b>BOTH and... </b></span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">-Some only Choose to work with Extremely Wealthy Clients.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some only Choose to work with the underdogs.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some only take Cash</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some do Smaller Front Ends, and bigger back ends once they have proven</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">their theory and or success for their clients.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some will do a Larger Front end and then a certain lower back end.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some do not believe in Sliding scales</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some do not believe in Charity</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some refuse to do MLM's</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Some Swear by MLM's</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">Here are my <b>Both ANDS...</b></span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">In today's society there is this merging bridging with Eastern and Western ways. And... There is a Large gap in Abundance cross culturally and economically... And with the economy being the way it is...</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">WHY would one <b>ONLY</b> Choose <b>ONE </b>way... </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">There are a few books I Love that speak to this - of course in their unique </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">perspective, and discuss Values, Giving, Authenticity, Out of the Box thinking +++ I Love reading them because they always make me smile, because I have always gotten a lot of BS if you will for not doing things the typical, dogmatic way when it comes to Abundance or Livelihood if you will:</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: blue;">Here are a few of my Favorites: </span></b><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-The Go-Giver by Bob Burg</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Up, Down or Sideways by Mark Sanborn</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Risky is the New Safe - The Rules Have Changed by Randy Gage</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">-Don't Gobble the Marshmallow... Ever ! by Joachim Posada</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">and Many More...</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I encourage anyone to read them if they haven't.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;"><b>Now back on topic..</b>. So where I am going with this well I absolutely <b>Love</b> to work with Amazing, Intelligent, Abundant People and Companies of all walks of Life, Cultures, and Abundance... Not just the wealthy, not just the underdogs... I have learned VOLUMES From <b>both and...</b></span><br />
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<b><span style="color: blue;">I do have some boundaries when it comes to the both and...</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: blue;">I also do believe that boundaries have a purpose and can serve to empower both parties...</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">***I do not give services and or product away for free, unless I have chosen to donate my time to a charity or an event for a specific reason.</span><br />
<span style="color: blue;"><b>Let me Clarify: </b>Writing Blogs Posts, giving information of value for free I think is great, however giving away actual product and services I have found... </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">***Most people DO NOT get the value if something is given to them for free. </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">They don't take it as seriously so think they can do the tasks etc... whenever it so suits them etc... </span><br />
<span style="color: blue;">***And... Studies show you just wind up creating an Email list that the industry has called: - The Freebie List. </span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I want to Empower, Teach and Give to people who REALLY want it, will follow thru and understands, values and respects themselves and the services I am providing.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I have therefore done all sorts of creative ways of payment when working with people who in my opinion don't need a Hand-OUT... Need a Hand-UP if you will either thru knowledge, skills, connections, Love, Self-empowerment, Inspiration, Guidance etc... Keeping in Mind when I say Payment that does not ALWAYS mean $$$. ***I do make sure to keep the percentages of unique payment arrangements in check with actual physical currency to meet my responsibilities.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">***I only turn people away for lack of commitment, due diligence, and not following thru with appointments etc... If someone shows me commitment, drive, willingness to learn and have an open mind, I will find a way for both parties to be happy.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">**I do not tolerate passive-aggressive, I know it all, constant negativity behavior.</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I believe that Deep down we all Crave, Inspiration, Empowerment, Love, and Success... and all of those things mean Different things to everyone... and if I am not willing to meet people where they are at and ONLY Choose ONE WAY</span><br />
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<span style="color: blue;">I had a Dream last night and literally woke up with you have to write a blog post about "Life is like a box of Crayons" so after lots of other editing etc... I had to do today, here it is night time once again and so we begin with...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Have you ever watched a Child with Crayons, truly watched them... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Ever child is different:</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Some Kids have to keep all of their crayons is a certain order...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Other kids pour them out and then make different piles</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">to Categorize the colors...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">in so they dig in and grab the ones they want.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Some kids will color using every single color...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Some kids will only color with one color...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">How we approach Anything - A relationship, a business project </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Are we Left brained or Right brained ?</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Are we Auditory, Visual, Kinesthetic, Audio Digital etc....</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Now... Imagine if we STRETCHED Ourselves and made ourselves Choose or Do something differently...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Choose to get a bit more organized - linear...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Choose to not only read that book, however next time, to also listen to the book via Audio.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-We as a culture do NOT use a large portion of our brains...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-As we have gotten older we have become FIXED on our points of view.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I invite everyone to get creative and messy... To Literally Learn, Play and Grow like when we were a kid... Get Silly, Laugh, Sing, Dance... and YES COLOR...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">My invitation or challenge to you would be to do this ONCE as soon as possible by yourself... Then do this Once a week with your kids, friends or Team...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">My Favorite has been to hold a weekly Meeting - That day is dress casual day and you have a meeting that is with Crayons, Paints, Markers, Silly Scissors, Blackboards etc.. and each week the team picks a project to do it on... I have personally seen some amazing, awesome, brilliant ideas, campaigns, problems solved in some of these Colorful brainstorming mastermind meetings - sessions...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Until Next Time... Enjoy the Journey</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Personally I attempt to treat everyone with the same values, caring, integrity etc... and those are the types of people that I choose to have in my own circles as well...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Their is a point of no return with certain acts in my personal opinion. Just saying nasty things about someone is ONE thing... However... if You know somebody has hurt some of your friends and then has gone to do it again and again to other friends at what point do you let Karma, Dharma, or whatever Philosophy you believe take over or have the Authenticity and Integrity to warn your friends... </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">I am never ashamed of mistakes or sweep them under the carpet, I use them to empower others, so If I have ever dealt with a shady character or deal unknowingly and then things go south etc... and then I see others getting burned in the same manner, I don't hide, feel embarrassed, I warn people- privately... not in big open forums that is not integrity, that is ranting and petty.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">***Hi Carly, this slippery slope began quite a while ago. We have become in the macrocosm a nation where situation-al ethics are the rule...where empathy is relegated to weakness; the social consious is mired in the survival of the fittest or maybe said the survival of the privilege class.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Be open and willing to take and give Compassionate Passionate Feedback.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Honesty, being willing to Delegate, embrace Let's Do it, meaning a mentality of Collaboration and Teamwork, or Delete it, Letting it Go...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Within this Compassionate Passionate Communications is vital.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Collaboration Leadership: Leadership that takes feedback from their</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-Authenticity, Integrity, Value</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">you might want to watch for, while of course pre-framing it that it is just their personal opinion. I can listen to their advice and heed it or not. </span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">D- We are all teachers for each other.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">E- There is a Phrase that a friend of mine uses all of the time:</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">F- In today's society with the internet, there are a lot of Fake profiles, people and businesses, and a ton of money scams, so If I personally know of that, and or have experienced it and then I see people that I care about Why wouldn't I just say something.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">The concept of letting people learn on their own does have merit... to a degree.</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">Society as a whole, with the VAST theologies, dogma's, philosophies, tend to Separate people, Black/White mentality, it has to be this way or that way, this is right, this is wrong etc... For me life is all about Both and...</span></div>
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<span style="color: blue;">-I absolutely believe doing, learning thru action is Vital to ones grow...</span></div>
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