Showing posts with label Being Authentic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Being Authentic. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

So it's the NEW YEAR... And... Your Resolutions Are ?

So here a Few questions I have seen Floating around and being Asked about New Year's Resolutions ?

***"What do  you regret not having achieved last year ?"
My response: I don't regret anything Everything I achieved was AWESOME and... Anything I didn't served it's purpose...  I learned and grew.

***"Have You  Set Your New Year's Resolution's Yet."
Personally, I feel the whole Hooray about Resolutions is a complete set up for Failure... Unless... a lot of things are in place to support them.


Things to think about:

-What is your intended Ripple Effect ? -What are Your intentions for the particular Resolutions ?
-Do You have a support system in place for the Resolutions ?
-Do You have a TEAM in place for the Resolutions ?
-What are the Outcomes you are looking to Achieve ?
-How Committed are You to these outcomes ?
-Does Your Environment Support Your outcomes ?
-Does What You Think on a Daily Basis Support Your outcomes ?


As I am sure You have heard many times - the saying:
What we think about most of the time we become... we create...


Another question I would LOVE to ask -
What sounds better to You ?
-Resolutions or Intentions ?
-Goals or Outcomes ?

Personally, I feel both Intentions and Outcomes sound and feel much more personal and Mindful than Resolutions and Goals. 

And... I Love Outcomes as when we become Soooo Focused on a Goal we can get TUNNEL VISION and miss out on all of the opportunities that are all around us to achieve that Outcome.  Like a Dog with a Bone, we become so fixated we won't let go of a certain way and can truly miss out on some amazing things.



*Being Open - Minded and Embracing the Both And Mentality...  Realizing we all have our own unique perspectives... Yet being willing to see all points of View, sometimes within another's point of view some Gems can be found.

*Taping into Your Senses... Really Listening, Feeling, Seeing, Communicating from our Inner Most Authentic Self.

I would like to Close with, be sure to Create the mentality of
Let's Do it, versus Do it....
Let's is Teamwork, Sharing, Collaboration
Do it... Is a Really hard way to do it...


Remember Every Action we Take Creates a Ripple...


Wishing Everyone an Amazing, Awesome 2013

Another Midnight Production
Enjoy the Journey
©Carly Alyssa Thorne







Saturday, June 2, 2012

Authenticity and Flexibility and Communication

Authenticity and Flexibility and Communication



I did a fun Podcast interview today My good friend Raphael Love 
and we talked about
Choices, Paths, Flexibility and Authenticity.

What Path are You on ??? 
In life it always comes down to choices...
What are You choosing to have in Your life ??? 
What people, places, things are You creating in Your life and how are they showing up for You ???

One of the biggest stumbling blocks to staying on Your path is being willing to be Authentic and Flexible. How often are You wearing a mask when You are in Public ???

Think of this... How do you expect people to be authentic with You, if You aren't the REAL You in any given situation. You have to be willing to truly be You at all times, it doesn't matter if You are on Stage giving a presentation or at home with Your loved one...

In life, You will find if You are Authentically You, Strong and grounded and are willing to go with the flow, remain open minded and not fixed minded, and don't take things personally,You would have a lot less stress... And... things would be manifesting in a much bigger and quicker way...
How often are You willing to ebb and flow with situations, instead of having a fixed point of View ???

Think of this.. A tree has a STRONG trunk yet when storms blow their branches-limbs go with the flow of the wind, if they didn't, we wouldn't have any trees because every time we had a storm the trees would snap and fall over...

People are not mind readers, You have to be willing to communicate anything and everything, if You don't share Your ideas, thoughts, feelings You will find that the whole creative process gets shut down and clogged up. In not expressing what You are feeling You are feeding a silent volcano that will eventually erupt.

Realize You aren't going to be able to Please everybody and the sooner You stop attempting to do so and remain Your authentic self, and Learn to embrace the terms Let's Do it, Delegate it or Delete it, your life will be filled of unnecessary drama that is a lot of wasted energy...

Get real with Yourself and others... Be willing to put Yourself out there... Stretch Yourself... Explore putting on a new habit, idea, inspiration and see how it feels... Open Your mind to new possibilites... Dream... Write... Become... Do...

The Muses of Carly Alyssa Thorne Copyright © 6/2012

Friday, March 2, 2012

How Many Masks are You Wearing ???


How Many Masks are YOU Wearing ???

Do You wear One Mask in Private and

One Mask in Public ???



Authenticity, Means Being Yourself to All...
Yes, Playing different Parts are part of LIFE...
However, You can still Play Multiple Parts as in 
a PLAY and Still come from YOUR Authentic Self...

Actors for example if they aren't coming from
their Authentic Self, You can tell they are ACTING...
It is when an Actor is in total Character, and coming
from his/her Authentic Self-Heart, when You forget
they are Acting...

Honor and Value Yourself Enough to Show
the WORLD the REAL Authentic YOU...

Team work is what Makes the Dreams Work, Enjoy the Journey