Conscious Parenting and Our Children - Our Future - Imagine if...

I don't know who the exact author is, I have googled it and cannot find who the quote was originated from... However the quote is this: 

"An anthropologist proposed a game to African tribe kids. He put a basket full of fruit near a tree and told them that whoever got there first won the sweet fruits. When he told them to run they all took each others hands and ran together, then sat together enjoying their treats. When he asked them why they had run like that as one could have had all the fruits for himself they said: UBUNTU, how can one of us be happy if all the other ones are sad?

UBUNTU in the Xhosa culture means: “I am because we are”.

When I saw this, picture and quote, I wrote this piece on Children and Education called "Imagine"

Imagine if All SCHOOLS taught from the Space of Heart Centered Co-Creational Global Consciousness and Taught and Lived from the Space of ONE.

Everything was taught from a mindset of: Teamwork, Sharing, Giving, Global  Unity, Peace and Collaboration, Friendship, and consciousness. 

All children were assigned an accountability partner of the opposite sex.
So they would learn how to deal with male and female dynamics energetically, emotionally etc...

Imagine if All Children were taught and raised in a Heart Centered Intentional Energetic Space a Village, Community, A large Campus if you will... where the everyday values where:  Love, Paying it Forward, Authenticity, Creativity, Co-Creation, Sharing, Collaboration, Teamwork, Compassionate Passionate Communications, Abundance in all areas of their life, out of the box thinking, Teamwork and more...

Imagine the classroom Environment Filled with: Color, Sound Vibratory Music Aromatherapy, Plants, Animals, having all children from Infants to Graduation all on one Campus.  A campus that had fruit trees, vegetable gardens, a Mini Farm. 

Their was a senior center on site. By having children from Infancy thru seniors on one campus they would learn what the whole cycle of life was about. Children would rotate time in the nursery and preschool area to the senior center so they could actively learn how to care for infants and toddlers, and learn patience and compassion from the elderly.

Their Bodies Nourished with: Alive, Whole, Alkaline, High Vibrational Foods every 3 hours to keep their Minds awake and alert.

Their Minds, Bodies and Spirits Nurtured thru:

Arts, Global Music, Compassionate Passionate Communications, Self Healing Energetics, Eastern and Western- Energetics, Healing, Philosophies, Theologies, and Psychology. 

Imagine the course curriculum included:

The Art of Hearing, The Art of Seeing, The Art of Listening, The Art of Feeling,

Sexuality, Sacred relationships, Marriage, Conscious Pregnancies, Conscious Parenting, Conscious Business Collaborations, Love Peace Gratitude, Compassionate Passionate Communications, Entrepreneurship, Creative Financing, Bartering, Organization, Aromatherapy, Energy Healing, Sacred Geometry-Math, Creative writing and story telling, Herbs, Flower Essences, Whole Food Nutrition, Gardening etc...

Their day began with: Body Movement then open sharing, into Creative writing and story telling, followed by Art and Music, Sacred Geometry-Math,

followed by different courses that they got to choose, because it was an interest that they were good at either hobby wise and or business wise etc...

They were taught Conscious Business Collaborations:

What that meant and the values of:

Integrity, Referrals, Sharing, Teamwork, Co-Creating with others….

Learning what the real meaning of Win-Win meant.

Doing what they Love...

Giving because you choice to and for no other reason...

Giving Massive Value...

Customer Service is paramount...

Imagine...

The Internet, Sharing, Family, Social Media and... Authenticity

These are truly interesting times in the Social Media World...

Do You trust yourself and others ???

Are You willing to meet people from across the world you 

have never met ???

Are You using Social Media authentically ???

Do You respond yourself or use automation ???

Is Social Media just a numbers game to You ???

Do You say one thing on the internet and then in your private world do another ???

Are You really where you say you are ???

What type of Social Media person are You- Introvert or Extrovert ???

To me the World is my family, and I have met some AMAZING people from around the world on the internet.  I will share a story of how amazing... I just relocated back to CA. from the Big Island of Hawaii where I lived for 3 yrs..

While I lived in Hawaii I met an amazing person whom I became good friends with over the internet, we talked almost everyday, yet we never had physically met, well one day on a business trip where I was supposed to stay feel thru, and YES, I could have stayed at a hotel, yet as I sat on a chair after I got my luggage with the news of my stay with friends having fallen thru and got really quiet, and all of a sudden I had this inner voice say call "_______".  

I called this person and they were like absolutely, and it was the most amazing, fun, in depth conversations ever...  Now mind you, his friends and my friends were telling each of us are you YOU NUTS this person could be crazy, dangerous etc...  All you have done is talk on the phone... 

My point is ONE must use their intuition, FEEL from their HEART not your belly where the butterflies of fear live... I have traveled across the country to meet people I have never met in person- males and females... One must take risks in live... Be daring, bold to expand, learn and grow...  

I am truly happy I am for the most part a fearless person, now; I am not saying I don't have certain things that I don't like or am not afraid of like "SNAKES" LOL... Just saying I don't live from a place of fear in my daily live... and I am sooo GRATEFUL for that...  

The funny thing is, on the phone and in person people tell me WOW... You are one of the most high energy, positive, passionate persons I have met,  and would have to agree that when I am on stage, performing, speaking, in front of the camera or live I am quiet the extrovert.... Yet once I am settled in I am very much the introvert, quiet homebody... I think it is because I use so much energy when I am in introvert mode I really relish and enjoy the quiet introvert time Hm... Not to say that even when I am introvert mode I am still not happy, passionate or energetic, I am just in a quieter more introverted state.

I have to say that in today's world of Social Media, I think it has truly helped those that are primarily introverts reach out and connect with others.  I also think it has helped the disabled population and those who can't get out,  have interaction and develop a circle of friends and build a support system.

On the other hand, we have people that have become so attached to Social Media they do nothing except surf on the computer and it consumes their life,  and they become shut ins... So at what point does Social Media become a problem ???

And... to what degree are you being honest when you are socializing in the Social Media world.  I have found some of Social Media to leave a BAD TASTE in my mouth because Social Media has become a numbers game, a score and some folks are NOT being authentic and honest.  

Example: Foursquare: It is meant to share where You are, what you do, and tips for others, instead I have seen people just to raise their scores checking into places they aren't even at.... 

Empire Avenue: People clicking on missions and not doing the missions, just collecting the Eaves...

WHAT the heck is that all about... Come on people... Are you that desperate to be the leader on a board and what does that say about you ?  

And... then of course we have all of the computer programs to do the work for us, auto responders etc... again which I can understand if You are a large company or famous... Yet my take on that is if you have a large company or are famous PAY a Virtual assistant with a POSITIVE caring, amazing energy can do attitude to handle it for you, so there is still a HUMAN element... Ok another pet peeve, Please CREATE Your OWN replies, in Your OWN words, so that it reflects YOU and not the assistant's words or style...  GEEZ... We are human beings after all that like real HUMAN caring and interaction...

Solution: one thing that I do is I have created all of these replies and action steps and have them in my email draft and a doc on my desktop so my assistant can just cut and paste my replies and I also have her leave me the DIRECT emails for me.  And... I have a list of people the VA's know to leave for me, I communicate directly with my inner circle people...  Why is it called SOCIAL MEDIA if we aren't willing to interact or socialize with others and truly show we actually care...

Ok the last thing that really drives me insane about the tech world... How many of You are silently cursing in your head when you call a number and you get these LONG messages with Please select option 1, 2, 3 etc... or a computer voice saying "how may I assist you" ? And then the voice says, Sorry I didn't get that, did you say this... PLEASE, that is such a WASTE of time... I would much rather have a live voice who knows the answers or where to direct me then wasting my time on a phone with a computer when half the time I am still going to have to speak to a live person anyway and I just wasted 10 minutes navigating the options and sorry I didn't understand that, let me connect you to an operator... LOL...  Yes, there is the short cut hit "OOO" for operator a ton of times LOL... and eventually after a few repeated "OOO's" you finally get connected.

So what was the POINT in writing this Blog...  The point was to bring to everyone's awareness, are they truly being authentic in the game of Social Media, are they truly creating Collaborations, sharing, and team work, or are they strictly in it for a higher klout score and automation...   

Please leave Comments on what your feelings are about Social Media, Automation, and the Numbers game...  

Also, if You have some unique tips and tools on how to solve some of these issues, share them...

Thank You all for being a part of the World's Co-Creating...  Team work is what makes the dreams work...

The Muses of Carly Alyssa Thorne  

Another midnight production....  

Copyright © 2012 Carly Alyssa Thorne  

Integrity-Giving-Sharing-Referrals-Co-Creating-Team work...

Integrity, Giving, Sharing, Referrals, Collaboration, Co-Creating, Teamwork

Do You Do things for Others with the expectation of a Return favor ???

When You say Win-Win do You really Mean Win-Win or are You always in the back of YOUR mind keeping Score ???

In today's Society and Business it is has become very Apparent that Many Still are Afraid to Share their Ideas, Give Referrals out to others and have not TRULY learned the Art of Giving...

They Hoard, and are coming from a Place of fear that somebody else might steal their idea... Business, Their clients etc... The Funny Thing is, when One is coming from that place of Fear, all they are Creating is the UNIVERSE presenting people in their life's that will prove their theory right...

What I absolutely LOVE about Bob Burg's Books the Go-Giver, and Go-Givers sell more is how it truly teaches what REAL GIVING is all about... In Real Life and in Business...

If Everyone just got that YOUR Best Abundance Manufacturer comes from having Beyond Excellent Customer Service which means Giving above

and Beyond of Yourself, without keeping score, Doing because YOU LOVE what You are doing, And... also being able to be HONEST with self and others when You Cannot serve a clients need because of time, resources, or that isn't your companies niche- And You are confident within Yourself and Your Company and NOT coming from a place of fear of Losing a Client and Can Say... Sorry and...

I can However Refer YOU to _____, they are great at that, and Please tell them I sent You, so they can take Excellent Care of YOU...

WOW... how things can Shift... Creating Teams, Associations, Co-Creation,

is What Life is all about... Promoting People, Businesses, Causes, People that You Truly Resonate with, You have their back as they have YOURS...  Developing those Alliances to better SERVE Your Clients and Business...

Now that to me is what True Giving and Business is all about...

I want to THANK Everyone who has been a part of my Co-Creation in life thus far... You mean the World to me, and I totally Love, Support, and Promote YOU to the Best of my ability...To Everyone's Success in all Areas of YOUR life...

Thank You for being a Part of the World's Co-Creation, Team work is what makes the Dreams Work... 

Enjoy the Journey~•✿•~ 

The Muses of ©Carly Alyssa Thorne

Copyright ©  2012 Carly Alyssa Thorne